Gmail Woes! BBDB Woes!

[xyblor]

How do I receive my Gmail through Gnus?

When Gnus tries to get my gmail, it hangs with the message:
"nnml: reading incoming mail from pop..."

This is what I have in my .gnus.el:

(setq gnus-secondary-select-methods '( [...]
                                      (nnml "")))

(load "ssl')
                                      
(setq mail-sources '( [...]
                     (pop
                      :server "pop.gmail.com"
                      :port 995
                      :user "my-username"
                      :password "my-password"
                      :connection ssl
                      :leave t)))


I'm using Gnus v5.10.7 with XEmacs on Windows XP, and I've got OpenSSL
and gnutls through Cygwin. Sounds scary, I know, but it seems to work
when I test it:

(open-ssl-stream "ssl-process"
                 (get-buffer-create "ssl")
                 "pop.gmail.com"
                 995)
==>
verify depth is 0
depth=0 /C=US/ST=California/L=Mountain View/O=Google Inc./CN=pop.gmail.com
verify error:num=20:unable to get local issuer certificate
verify return:1
depth=0 /C=US/ST=California/L=Mountain View/O=Google Inc./CN=pop.gmail.com
verify error:num=27:certificate not trusted
verify return:1
depth=0 /C=US/ST=California/L=Mountain View/O=Google Inc./CN=pop.gmail.com
verify error:num=21:unable to verify the first certificate
verify return:1
+OK Gpop ready q16pf386646qbq

I haven't confirmed that tls is working, but as I understand it, I
shouldn't need tls because I only want to receive gmail, not send it.

Any ideas?

My other question is how do I get BBDB to automatically add the
addresses of people I write mail to? I've already done
(bbdb-initialize 'gnus 'message), but that doesn't seem to be
sufficient.

Thanks!